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Whenever i meet or see someone on tv no matter their gender or what their preferences are, I always listen more than look because it’s easy (at least it is for me) to recognize that someone is attractive and maybe has no personality versus another person that expresses themselves so clearly and makes sense. That’s the kind of person that I find intriguing and pay more attention to. I guess I’m at an age (almost 54 ) right now where in my mind beauty fades and we get older but no matter who I’m friends with or talking to or meet and no matter what their position is politically or personally, I try to see the good in each person that I meet rather than immediately judging them. I know what it feels like to be looked at and literally told by doctors and specialists that I look fine so what could be wrong with me? and I’ve been sick for four years now and I’ve had people meet me and think because I have blonde hair that I’m dumb as dirt and I sort of pretty much laugh at that because I love to be underestimated. Your thoughts and beliefs and facts matter and I enjoyed reading your comments- it was definitely an article that makes one stop and think before answering quickly -thanks so much for sharing⭐️

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